A common management term is FIFO, which means First In, First Out. This term simply means that the item which comes first must go first. This term is also applicable to human beings, to maintain the equilibrium that those who are born first should also die first. When this order of nature is broken, it leads to immense sorry.
In my private practice, I observe that parents who have lost their children are the neediest of psychological counselling. Thus, the death of a child is the most devastating loss. So, the parent mourns the loss of his or her childâs life, the missed potential and future together.
Hence, there are some steps which the parents can take to make to be able to cope with the death of their child.
Be Gentle with yourself: Firstly, donât blame yourself for the death of your child.
Get Plenty of sleep: Secondly, Science has shown that a loss of this magnitude is equivalent to a major injury, and your body needs rest to recover
Remember to eat: In this grief, there is a loss of appetite, make sure that your body receives enough nutrition to sustain
Drink Water: It is very important to keep your body hydrated to function correctly
Avoid Alcohol and drugs: Also, donât use abuse alcohol and make it a crutch to cope with this grief
Medication: Most importantly, donât self-medicate, use antidepressants under the guidance of a doctor only
Meditation: Lastly, Meditate. It brings solace and the ability to cope with the loss
For a parent, death of their child is the worst possible pain, and they most likely need professional guidance to cope with this pain. I strongly urge the surviving siblings and parents to seek professional help from an experienced psychologist.
âYou can talk with a close friend or relative about whatâs troubling you; but itâs not the same as professionally-trained experienced psychologist who knows exactly what kind of help you need” â Dr. Prerna Kohli.
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About Dr. Prerna Kohli
She is a 100 women Achievers Award Winner (2016) from the Honorable President of India, Shri Pranab Mukherjee.
 Dr. Prerna Kohli is a Clinical Psychologist, a Public Speaker, a Workshop Facilitator and a Holistic Practitioner. She offers Heart-based workshops and lectures that focus on Life Balance, Self-awareness and Inner Peace. Dedicated to sharing her knowledge and compassion with others, Prerna blends intuitive wisdom with solid understanding, creating a powerful holistic approach, specializing in the areas of Emotional change.
Dr. Prerna Kohli is a leading Psychologist in India and provides families, individuals, parents and children counselling on being happy.
